A New View On Dating...

No More Dating Games

Dating is not a game. There are no winners or losers. Dating is a learning experience that should allow both people to grow. Dating is not just about "looking for love." Dating should not be a desperate search for the perfect mate who will make you feel loved. Instead, you need to find love inside you and let that radiate outward. That's why you often find love when you're not specifically looking, as those are the times you are most naturally yourself. Dating is not about complaining about who you're with. Instead, it's about whom you choose to be with. There is a world of people out there and whomever you choose reflects what you need to learn.

Dating In The Past vs. Dating In The Present

•  The man has to love a woman more than she loves him

•  You need someone to date to validate your worth

•  Play games

•  Play hard to get or pretend you're not interested

•  Withhold details about yourself to keep the mystery

•  Both people should love each other equally

•  You are fine on your own; a date merely annotates

•  Be yourself

•  Show interest when you feel it

•  Reveal yourself to be intriguing

Dating is fun! The word doesn't have to give you butterflies, sweaty palms or heart palpitations. Instead, when you think of the work DATING, think of it as a way to meet people, learn about yourself, and, if all goes well, experience love.

Here Are Some Useful Tips:

•  Let people know you are available

•  Know, but be flexible about your "love criteria"

•  Accept "no" and let go

•  Go places and see things that you enjoy

•  Boost your self-esteem and mates will flock to you

•  Remember that you have the power to get what you want

•  Always have hope- you can meet someone special anytime and anywhere

•  Meet as many people as you can

•  Be ready and open for love